When my in-the-closet first husband would go out at night (without me, of course), I would binge on pasta and television for that evening. I still crave pasta whenever I hear The Love Boat theme…Divorce was my answer — still overweight, but not as much (she says after finishing 2 — count’em — sticky buns.

Blessings to you and best of luck on your journey. We all need to do work on ourselves and it’s the smart ones who realize that.