Even before I was a single Mom, my daughter came first to me. But for her father he was first.

Now, almost 50 years later (yeah, I’m old), things have changed. I have many shoes because back then I had two pair: everyday an nursing clinics (with holes in them, which made it uncomfortable when I walked home in the snow after my 3=11 pm shift). And I have several coats because when I was pregnant I was still wearing the coat I had in 8th grade.

It will change but it takes time.