Mar 29Everything’s a Struggle…Everything seems to be a struggle these days. I have pain in my right arm to the point where I cannot use it to feed myself. I cannot type using that arm or hand, I cannot even brush my hair. Just putting something in the microwave is difficult — I…2 min read
Mar 26Not Good Enough…Feeling not good enough yet again today. It probably all began with a bike. My sister got a bike but I did not. I was told it was because I probably would hurt myself riding one — -I was overweight and not very good physically. I was told by my…2 min read
Mar 22The Purrfect MedicineIt has been shown scientifically that people who own pets, like dogs and cats live longer and are, on the whole, happier. A dog owner must take their dog out for a walk, providing exercise that the owner might not get. Dogs also get emotionally attached to their human partner…3 min read
Mar 20Becoming a “Friend of the President’s”How I became “A Friend of the President” I’m standing in the Rose Garden — yes, that Rose Garden — waiting for the President, Mrs. Clinton, the Vice President, and Mrs. Gore to come out. There’s about a dozen of us, under a canopy, in a circle around a podium…5 min read
Mar 20Reading or Not…Last year I read over 100 books and gifted myself with the T shirt pictured above. So far this year I have read one book what has happened to my reading? Books and reading were always the one of the most important things in my life. I had so many…1 min read
Mar 16Aging in Place…How to do it successfully When I was in my 30s, I really wanted a stone farmhouse full of antiques. When I remarried that’s exactly what I got. I moved into my husband’s home — a stone farmhouse built in 1850. He did build an extension to it but…2 min read
Mar 15I Don’t Have to Age GracefullyAnd neither do you… I refuse to age gracefully. At least the “gracefully” that we’re taught by the media. At 74 I have many physical issues that prevent me from doing the things that once made me feel young. I’m no longer walking long distances. I’m no longer buying fancy…2 min read
Mar 14Medical Mistakes…They can be small and still cause big problems…. The medical mistakes that happen to me were small compared to what has happened to other people. However, the mistakes that happen to me have changed my life, hopefully for only a short time. Here’s what has happened to me in…3 min read
Mar 13Who Will Come for You?I belong to the Greater Lehigh Valley writers group. This group has a critique type session weekly called the writers cafe. I try to make it to each one because it does encourage me to continue to write. I even attended by Zoom when I was in the rehab hospital…2 min read
Mar 11When Someone Who’s Hurt You DiesI learned of her death on an email from my alumni association. She had been a friend in the beginning of nursing school. That did not last long and I can’t remember why it didn’t. I don’t know if it was a jealousy on one of our parts. That came…3 min read